Strengthen Your Marriage
February 14, 2010 by Brent O'Bannon
Filed under Balance Matters Minute - Weekly Success Strategies
Do you use your strengths in your marriage?
Marriage is like a combination lock; your job is to find the right numbers, in the right order, so you can unlock your love potential. Famous management consultant Peter Drucker once said that “Most Americans don’t know their own strengths. When you ask them, they look at you with a blank stare.” Drucker was dead on. When it comes to understanding our strengths most of us are in the dark. Yet the fastest way to marriage success is by discovering and applying our strengths.
How then, can you focus on your strengths if you don’t know what those strengths are?
The short answer is: you can’t.
Through the Strengths Finder 2.0, I can help you and your spouse discover your top 5 strengths.
For example if your spouse is a LEARNER, then sign her up for yoga or piano lessons or a class at the local college. Take her to a book store or a movie or the opera, any place she can learn new ideas and activities. For learners, life is one long deliberate journey from ignorance to competence. Understand this much about her and you’ve just connected in a meaningful way you and she never thought possible.
If one of her strengths is HARMONY then be on the lookout for areas of agreement. Find common ground. Steer clear of debates and lickety-split you find your own life in perfect harmony.
If you husband has the ACTIVATOR strength then utilize it to help you make improvements around the house. They can transform ideas into immediate action.
Maybe your husband has WOO (Winning Others Over). This strength can bring fun, energy and more socialization to your relationship. This strength also can naturally use humor to put the conflict with the teenagers at ease.
So as you approach Valentine’s Day how do you jump over weaknesses and flow in your strengths?
You need a coach to teach you how. And now you have one!
Get Your Strength Finder 2.0 Book Now and
Complimentary Discovery Coaching Session (Value $120) for $19.95.
Complimentary Discovery Coaching Session (Value $120) for $19.95.
PS-You will need to purchase one book for each person because there is only one code for the online assessment per book.
Put the odds in your favor!
PSS-If you and your spouse are interested in my Strengths Based telecoaching series send me an email expressing interest.
** Any comments or questions email me at brent@brentspeaks.com . Thanks!
For life coaching call now at 903.819.0301 and visit
Brent O’Bannon
America’s #1 Personal Life Coach
Coaching points:
1. Do you focus more on each others weaknesses or strengths?
2. What strengths do you appreciate in your spouse?
2. What strengths do you appreciate in your spouse?
3. For more information visit my new web site at www.strengthsfindercoaching.com .
